I decided not to give up on the Focus since mine is the only problem child out of a long list of friends, family members, and coworkers that own and love theirs.
And I got this (this has tan interior...mine has black):

I know what you're thinking...it's the new body style and it's not an SES. Personally I much prefer the newer style to the 05-07' and that's even considering the beloved hatchback is no longer an option. The inside is more refined and seems to be more pleasant to drive.
I bought an SEL because I found the extra features to worth the extra money over an SE. My particular SEL has SYNC and everything down to heated leather seats. The suspension is slightly upgraded with a rear sway bar but does not have the sportier setup of the SES. In hindsight the SES would have been cooler with the SVT EAPs, smoothed bumpers, and better suspenstion but none were to be found with the combination of other features I wanted (I have an unbridled and irrational hatred of tan interior). Combine that with the fact **zips up flame suit** that I would rather have a comfortable ride (I commute across back country roads) than be able to zing around corners like I did with the old car.